Thursday, 16 March 2017

The Ugly Duchess

Assalammualaikum (and good evening)

The Ugly Duchess

Tell me, would you dare to call a duchess ugly? You'd dare to think, to ponder, to gossip, but you'd never dare to say it to her face. For it would not just break her, it might tear her apart (and you).

Beauty is VERY important in a woman's life, because ... well, just because. Not having anyone to love you and appreciate what you are, what you have, will destroy a person's self-confidence. Wonder why I keep saying on about appreciation of beauty?

Well, my dearz, it's my utmost pleasure to introduce you to the most grotesque, yet beautiful painting I've ever seen in my whole youthful life 😉

Quenten Massys Ugly Duchess An Old Woman 1513

To describe this painting, particularly the grotesque old woman, we can see the upturned nose, wrinkled breast and beady eyes. The question buzzing in my head is, why would Quentin Massys paint such an ugly picture?

In recent years, researcher have found that the woman in painting was actually suffering from an advanced form of osteitis deformans, which left her with an extended upper lip, deformed jaw and a pushed up nose. Poor lady ... 😢😢😢

BUT THAT'S OKAY! Because when I look closely (from my unprofessional POV), I can see that Massys painted his model with care, and there is a kindness in her eyes. The kindness maybe comes from years and years of torture by society in her era, who takes physical beauty very seriously. And there she was, the ugly duchess. I think of her as a grateful lady, for she had the wealth, but not the health, and she make up for her ugliness with the kindness in her eyes.

And this is why we should really stress on APPRECIATION OF BEAUTY - regardless of the many forms it comes in.

Love,
Nadya.

Friday, 10 March 2017

Embrace Yourself 💖💛💙

Hi everyone, Ayizz, Minin and Fatini here. We’ve decided to go for task 1, researching about other eating disorders besides anorexia and manorexia. Surprisingly, there are actually numerous eating disorder that exist in the world and we hope you guys are not classified in any of these.

BINGE EATING DISORDER

This is the most common eating disorder in the United States. It’s characterized by recurrent episodes of eating large quantities of food very quickly and to the point of discomfort. This is followed by a feeling of a loss of control during the binge, experiencing shame, distress or guilt afterwards.


  • Recurrent episodes of binge eating. An episode of binge eating is characterized by both of the following:
    • Eating, in a discrete period of time (e.g., within any 2-hour period), an amount of food that is definitely larger than what most people would eat in a similar period of time under similar circumstances.
    • A sense of lack of control over eating during the episode (e.g., a feeling that one cannot stop eating or control what or how much one is eating).
  • The binge eating episodes are associated with three (or more) of the following:
    • Eating much more rapidly than normal.
    • Eating until feeling uncomfortably full.
    • Eating large amounts of food when not feeling physically hungry.
    • Eating alone because of feeling embarrassed by how much one is eating.
    • Feeling disgusted with oneself, depressed, or very guilty afterward.
Statistics
  • A 2007 study asked 9,282 English-speaking Americans about a variety of mental health conditions, including eating disorders. The results, published in Biological Psychiatry, found that 3.5% of women and 2.0% of men had binge eating disorder during their life
    • This makes BED more than three times more common than anorexia and bulimia combined.
    • BED is also more common than breast cancer, HIV, and schizophrenia.
  • When researchers followed a group of 496 adolescent girls for 8 years until they were 20, they found:
    • 5.2% of the girls met criteria for DSM5 anorexia, bulimia, or binge eating disorder.
    • When the researchers included nonspecific eating disorder symptoms, a total of 13.2% of the girls had suffered from a DSM-5 eating disorder by age 20.
NIGHT EATING SYNDROME

Night eating syndrome (NES) is a condition that combines overeating at night with sleep problems. With NES, you eat a lot after dinner, have trouble sleeping, and eat when you wake up at night. Night eating syndrome is not the same as binge eating disorder, although individuals with night eating syndrome are often binge eaters. It differs from binge eating in that the amount of food consumed in the evening/night is not necessarily objectively large nor is a loss of control over food intake required. Individuals with night eating syndrome feel like they have no control over their eating patterns, and often feel shame and guilt over their condition.


People with NES will eat at least a quarter of their daily calories after dinner. If you wake up to eat at least twice a week, you may have NES if you also have at least three of these:
  • Lack of appetite in the morning
  • A strong urge to eat between dinner and sleep
  • Insomnia four or five nights a week
  • A belief that eating is necessary to get to sleep or get back to sleep
  • A depressed mood that gets worse during evening hours

   


What Causes It?
Causes of night eating syndrome vary, but there are usually a variety of contributing factors. Sometimes college students pick up the habit of eating at night and are unable to break the habit when they become working adults. High achievers sometimes work through lunches, and then overcompensate by eating more at night.



Night eating syndrome, ironically, may be a response to dieting. When people restrict their intake of calories during the day, the body signals the brain that it needs food and the individual typically overcompensates at night. Night eating may also be a response to stress.


Researchers have found a possible link between NES and genetics. There’s a gene called PER1 that’s thought to have a hand in controlling your body clock. Scientists believe a defect in the gene could cause NES. More research is needed.


PURGING DISORDER



In the context of eating disorders, purging typically goes hand-in-hand with bingeing. However, the latter is not necessary for compensatory behaviors to occur. Purging, which can include self-induced vomiting, laxative or diuretic abuse, enemas, and compulsive exercise, can also follow a small or relatively normal-sized meal. This is referred to as purging disorder.

Bulimia nervosa is characterized by both bingeing and purging. Compensatory behaviors without bingeing can also be found in those with anorexia nervosa. However, if an individual’s symptoms do not fit the other diagnostic criteria for these disorders, then purging disorder might be present.
Many people mistakenly believe that eating disorders are only present if there is a dramatic weight loss. This is not true, and is often not representative of individuals with purging disorder, though weight fluctuations are common. There are other specific behaviors that can serve as red flags for purging disorder.


Purging disorder is included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) under the classification of Other Specified Feeding and Eating Disorder (OSFED). Though there are no current statistics on how many individuals are affected by this condition, the signs and dangers of purging on both the mind and body are well understood within the eating disorder community.

Compensatory behaviors are typically done in secret. As with other eating disorders, purging disorder is closely associated with shame and self-loathing. Individuals struggling with purging disorder often isolate during and after mealtimes, avoiding meals with friends or big parties where they might be unable to purge following food consumption of any kind.

Engaging in compensatory behaviors can become addictive. Self-induced vomiting can actually change an individual’s brain chemistry, affecting serotonin levels and releasing endorphins.

This can result in a high that those with purging disorder might strive to recreate following a meal. Similarly, it can be difficult to cease laxative use if an individual’s body has become reliant on them to produce bowel movements.

If you notice a loved one regularly going to the restroom directly following every meal, this can be indicative of purging behaviors. Likewise, if someone does not have gastrointestinal problems but consistently has diarrhea, this can be a sign of laxative abuse.

Physical and Psychological Impact

Different forms of purging can have similar physical side effects. These include dehydration, electrolyte imbalance, and vital organ damage. Additionally, self-induced vomiting can lead to dental problems, swelling of the throat, and broken blood vessels in the face and neck. Laxative abuse can result in rectal bleeding, chronic diarrhea, or constipation without the aid of laxatives.
There are serious psychological side effects of purging, as these behaviors are addictive and can become a compulsion. Purging in any form is often implemented to cope with feeling out of control and/or to relieve anxiety, but it undoubtedly exacerbates both in the long run.

These effects are similar to those of other eating disorders, including irritability, mood swings, and increased anxiety, particularly when the individual is unable to engage in behaviors.

Eating disorders typically trick those who are struggling into believing their behaviors are the one thing keeping them above water. In reality, disordered eating and compensatory behaviors can force an individual into isolation and increase co-occurring mental health conditions. The chemical changes that self-induced vomiting causes in the brain can also directly contribute to depression and anxiety.


In conclusion, we should just love our body and be comfortable with our own skin because loving yourself is the greatest revolution. #EMBRACEYOURSELF #meloveme

Thursday, 9 March 2017

Media as Medium Part 3

Here's another song! 

Confident by Demi Lovato

"Confident"
Are you ready?

It's time for me to take it
I'm the boss right now
Not gonna fake it
Not when you go down
'Cause this is my game
And you better come to play

I used to hold my freak back
Now I'm letting go
I make my own choice
[Clean version:] Yeah I run this show
[Explicit version:] Bitch, I run this show
So leave the lights on
No, you can't make me behave

So you say I'm complicated
That I must be outta my mind
But you've had me underrated
Rated, rated

What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?

It's time to get the chains out
Is your tongue tied up?
'Cause this is my ground
And I'm dangerous
And you can get off
But it's all about me tonight

So you say I'm complicated
That I must be outta my mind
But you've had me underrated
Rated, rated

What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?

So you say I'm complicated
But you've had me underrated

What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?
What's wrong with being, what's wrong with being
What's wrong with being confident?

And another song is Love Me by Katy Perry.

"Love Me"
I lost myself in fear of losing you
I wish I didn't do
But I did
I lost my own, my own identity
Forgot that you picked me for me

But now, I don't negotiate with insecurities
They always seem to get the best of me
I found I had to love myself, the way I wanted you to...

...love me,
No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

Sometimes I wish my skin was a costume
That I could just unzip
And strip
But who I am is who I'm meant to be
And it's who you are in love, in love with

So now, I don't negotiate with insecurities
They're gonna have to take a back seat
I know I have to love myself, the way I want you to...

...love me,
No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

[2x]
No more standing in my own way
Let's go deeper, let's get closer
No more standing in my own way
(I want you to love me)

No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing my feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

No more second guessing
No, there’s no more questioning
I’ll be the one defining who I'm gonna be
No concealing feelings, or changing seasonally
I’m gonna love myself, the way I want you to love me

Spread the positive vibes!

Media as Medium Part 2

Here's are the advertisements!
P/S : Contents may be explicit.


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Below are links that you may visit :
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AzqSZdYHyRI

By Nadya, Aiman and Dania.

Media as a medium

Hi guys! 😁
So this post gonna be on a part of how the media can help adolescences to overcome the developing a negative body image in an anglophone culture and accept how their body naturally developed. There are a few songs, advertisements and also articles that me and my teammates had found out that could be the inspiration to the teens to belief on themselves and be confident on their physical condition.

The first song would be Little Things by One Direction! It is slow but the lyrics are all about how guys have their judgement on girls but still they just love they way naturally it is.

"Little Things"
[Zayn:]
Your hand fits in mine like it's made just for me
But bear this in mind, it was meant to be
And I'm joining up the dots with the freckles on your cheeks
And it all makes sense to me...

[Liam:]
I know you've never loved the crinkles by your eyes when you smile
You've never loved your stomach or your thighs, the dimples in your back at the bottom of your spine
But I'll love them endlessly

[Zayn & Liam:]
I won't let these little things
Slip out of my mouth
But if I do
It's you
Oh it's you
They add up to
I'm in love with you
And all these little things

[Louis:]
You can't go to bed without a cup of tea
And maybe that's the reason that you talk in your sleep
And all those conversations are the secrets that I keep
Though it makes no sense to me

[Harry:]
I know you've never loved the sound of your voice on tape
You never want to know how much you weigh, you still have to squeeze into your jeans
But you're perfect to me

[Harry & Niall:]
I won't let these little things
Slip out of my mouth
But if it's true
It's you
It's you
They add up to
I'm in love with you
And all these little things

[Niall:]
You'll never love yourself half as much as I love you
And you'll never treat yourself right darlin' but I want you to
If I let you know I'm here for you
Maybe you'll love yourself like I love you, oh

[Harry:]
I've just let these little things
Slip out of my mouth
'Cause it's you
Oh it's you
It's you they add up to
And I'm in love with you
And all these little things

[Everyone:]
I won't let these little things
Slip out of my mouth
But if it's true
It's you
It's you
They add up to
I'm in love with you
And all your little things

Next song is "Who Says" by Selena Gomez

"Who Says"
I wouldn't wanna be anybody else, hey

[Verse 1:]
You made me insecure,
Told me I wasn't good enough.
But who are you to judge
When you're a diamond in the rough?
I'm sure you got some things
You'd like to change about yourself.
But when it comes to me
I wouldn't want to be anybody else.

Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na na na na

I'm no beauty queen
I'm just beautiful me

Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na na na na

You've got every right
To a beautiful life
C'mon

[Chorus:]
Who says, who says you're not perfect?
Who says you're not worth it?
Who says you're the only one that's hurtin'?
Trust me, that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty?
Who says you're not beautiful?
Who says?

[Verse 2:]
It's such a funny thing
How nothing's funny when it's you
You tell 'em what you mean
But they keep whiting out the truth
It's like a work of art
That never gets to see the light
Keep you beneath the stars
Won't let you touch the sky

Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na na na na

I'm no beauty queen
I'm just beautiful me

Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na na na na

You've got every right
To a beautiful life
C'mon

[Chorus:]
Who says, who says you're not perfect?
Who says you're not worth it?
Who says you're the only one that's hurtin'?
Trust me, that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty?
Who says you're not beautiful?
Who says?

[Bridge:]
Who says you're not star potential?
Who says you're not presidential?
Who says you can't be in movies?
Listen to me, listen to me
Who says you don't pass the test?
Who says you can't be the best?
Who said, who said?
Would you tell me who said that?
Yeah, who said?

[Chorus:]
Who says, who says you're not perfect? (yeah)
Who says you're not worth it? (yeah yeah)
Who says you're the only one that's hurtin'? (oh)
Trust me, that's the price of beauty (hey yeah, beauty)
Who says you're not pretty? (who said?)
Who says you're not beautiful? (I'm just beautiful me)
Who says?

Who says you're not perfect?
Who says you're not worth it?
Who says you're the only one that's hurtin'?

Trust me (yeah), that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty?
Who says you're not beautiful? (who says you're not beautiful?)
Who says?



Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Get an A in your interactive oral



Mental Health
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Peers can either help or make things worst
POSSIBLE POINTS

  • The guy is looking worried and is sharing his problems with his friends
  • A lot of teenagers are suffering from peer pressure
  • Tend to change behaviour and attitude to fit in society
  • Friends play an important role in our lives
  • If problems are not shared they can lead to worse cases like depression and anxiety
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Seek for help before it's too late

POSSIBLE POINT
  • Depression
  • Struggle with the feelings of helplessness and hopelessness
  • A common problem in older adults
  • Too many depressed people fail to recognize the symptoms and do not take the steps to get the help they need
  • Some of them have the thoughts of suicide
  • Most of the people who suffered from depression are celebrities


  1. Education stress causes school phobia?
  2. Education stress a factor of change in behaviour and physical health among kids

Possible points
  • Kids are being pressured to study at a very young age which causes stress among kids
  • Stress at an early age could lead to a change in behaviour or even affect kids’ physical health
  • This could possibly lead to phobia from going to school
  • Not only that, this could also lead to violence among children


Health & Food

1. Healthy eating habits start in childhood
2. Obesity: the slow killer starts its work early

POSSIBLE POINT
  • The eating habits children pick up when they are young will help them maintain a healthy lifestyle when they are adults
  • The most important aspect of healthy eating is portion control and cutting down on how much fat and sugar
  • Obesity is a major health problem worldwide
  • Body mass index is a rough guide to measure obesity
  • Increases the risk of developing several chronic diseases such as type II diabetes
  • An energy imbalance between calories consumed and calories expended
  • Obesity is preventable

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The pleasure of binge eating is delusional

POSSIBLE POINTS

  • There is so much junk food on the table
  • The lady is eating with both of her hands and she looks stressed
  • Binge eating is becoming a serious issue where people eat large quantities of food in a short period and can’t control themselves
  • After eating that person will feel guilty and ashamed
  • Usually people suffering from binge eating are obese or overweight


  1. Eat your veggies!
  2. ‘’I don't like veggies, they don’t taste good’’

Possible points
  • Based on the picture you can tell that the kid is not enjoying his meal
  • Nowadays, kids prefer junk foods than healthy ones (veggies) which leads to unhealthy kids and brings other diseases such as obesity.
  • They deemed that veggies don’t taste good
  • They don’t know the importance of veggies for their health

Health & Beauty/image


1. The hunger for beauty knows no gender
2. Men have body image issues too! - It is just as hard to be Ken as it is to be Barbie

POSSIBLE POINTS
  • The issue of body image is on etat has risen in prevalence in today’s society
  • The perfect body image is rapidly growing movement with ambassadors such as social media
  • Influenced a new standard for beauty in fashion
  • The number of male anorexia and bulimia increase
  • All of the society is vulnerable to low self-esteem and poor body image, regardless of gender
  • An open dialogue needs to be had and men in general need to feel comfortable in expressing worry and concern about their wellbeing
  • If you are developing concerning behaviors, then you are not alone and professional help is available

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Even all the makeup in the world cannot make you feel prettier

POSSIBLE POINTS

  • There is a lot of makeup on the table
  • The girl looks happy with how she looks
  • Makeup is often used to cover up so-called flaws to make someone feel pretty
  • It makes someone’s self acceptance very low
  • The media and celebrities are making wearing makeup a must to look beautiful and flawless


Considering cosmetic surgery? Would you sacrifice your health for beauty?
Possible points:

  • Based on the picture, the woman is trying to make herself look beautiful by undergoing cosmetic surgery
  • The woman looks as if she is trying to hold her pain while undergoing the surgery
  • People always wanted to look like celebrities which causes them to abuse these plastic or cosmetic surgery
  • Plastic surgery is currently increasing among teens and adults
  • Often times, we heard news about plastic surgery causing cancer