Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Are You as BEAUTIFUL as Me?

Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.

Kahlil Gibran


If you ask most people what they find beautifulπŸ™† about a person, many of them will probably begin to describe someone's physical characteristics. It usually goes something like this: "I like big eyesπŸ‘€, long hairπŸ‘Έ, big boobs😱, nice butt😡..."  Rarely do you hear someone reply, "What makes someone beautiful to me is their courage, kindness and sense of humor.πŸ˜…"  

So before I go to the main topic, I would like to share with you guys a short story about my life and the reason why I more prefer inner beauty than physical beauty.πŸ“œ When I was sixteen, I fell in love with a good-looking guy. He is quite good but you know right, of course there will be some girls who also admire him. After two-year relationship, one day I was told that he had been cheating on me. Sad or angry? I don't even remember anymore. Since that day, I always remind myself for not trusting someone just based on their looks. DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER, right?

All men and women "beautiful" in the same waysπŸ’πŸ’

We are all human. We have eyes. We are likely to judge someone based on her or his appearance. I don't know about you, but I'm able to see beauty in a lot of things, from children to adults to flowers and to the nature. That's why I have the opinion that men and women are BEAUTIFUL in the same ways.

What makes a beautiful man and what makes a beautiful girl?πŸ‘¦πŸ‘§πŸ’“πŸ’•πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’›πŸ’œ

Some men and women can and should be beautiful because God designed them to be that way. Some men and women were designed to be attractive and beautiful, and all people in the world want to be beautiful too. However, the physical side of beauty is just a small part of what makes a man and woman truly BEAUTIFUL.

So, today I will share with all of you about my opinion toward beautiful man and beautiful woman.

For me, a BEAUTIFUL woman and man are not only admired for their physical appearance; they are admired for their inner qualitiesπŸ‘° as well. There are many inner qualities that make a woman become beautiful and make a man become Mr. Perfect 10πŸ’ž for meπŸ˜†. However, I will only focus on inner qualities of man and woman that make themselves truly beautiful. 

A person who is kind and gracious is very beautiful. Gracious people retains honor. I think most of the people will find a kind, gentle, thoughtful and unselfish wo/man to become their life partner. Why? πŸ˜’ Yaa, who want to get married with a wo/man who look beautiful (handsome) but do not have any manners right. For me, it is totally a BIG NO. 

Besides, a man or woman should have good judgement. A lovely person who lacks discretion is compared to a ring on gold in a swine's snout. If a wo/man is physically attractive, but lacks discretion, it takes away from her or his beauty and value. Good judgement is needed in many areas in life such as moral issues. For me, a person who possess good judgement is of great value because they can be trusted to do right thing.πŸ‘

Before I end this entry, I want to tell everyone that our society places a high value on the physical beauty but it does not understand all of the elements that make a person truly beautiful. If a person possesses only the physical aspect of beauty without the inner and godly qualities, s/he is only a hollow and empty shell.

So, don't get sad when people around you say that you're ugly as shit or else. Always remember that you're always beautiful than the "beautiful" person because you have a good manner. 

                                        




Bye. See you next time.😜

5 comments:

  1. Hi BEE! It's ok you deserve better :D sad that you have to go through all the bad stuff but that is how we grow :D #classrepadvice

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    1. Thanks Zafry n I would like to dedicate your words to you too.

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  2. Usually, when i judge someone based on the appearance, I always get it wrong. So yeah!

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  3. Whats life without a bit of drama? ;)

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  4. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince.. ;) This saying was on a bookmark I once bought. So Bee, maybe it's related to your story, maybe not, but hope you find your prince one day!

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